If you have people who are opposed or disruptive, it seems that
the goal is to work until they can come to tolerate the issue.
It sounds to me like it is OK to get to a point where you can
say the person still cannot accept it, but you have to move on
anyway.
There is the tendency to dumb down things until you have what
everyone can tolerate and no one really wants. You know, you do
not go to GM for the greatest automobile. They have a lot of talent
there. The trouble is they have a compromise mentality. I prefer
to go through multiple iterations of design in a non-compromising
way.
For example, Gail and I see things quite differently and often
disagree. We used to work together a lot. We had some rules about
resolving conflict. We considered who had the strongest passion
about the situation and who had the best track record. I would
rather go with an idea with which I disagree but that is powerful
than take a compromise. Group process is often used for compromise.
Compromise has nothing to do with collaboration. It is just trading
off a lesser solution. You are using what is broken because a
better idea does not prevail. If you have a situation that cannot
be resolved, get it out into the market place and test it.
It is violent to force a person out of their position or to take
their work and compromise it, dumb it down. Those things are wrong
and not necessary. Get into the design process further. Have it
vigorous and full of feedback, and testing. If you are in that
early, you have time to find out how that is working. We are going
into a knowledge economy. If someone stole your car, you would
object. Your mind is your property, too.
We need to create an environment of respect for these gifts.
Because you and I do not agree, it does not mean either of us
are wrong. It is irrelevant. What works and what I can learn form
the difference is interesting.
If compromise is followed, people will feel better in the short
term but worse in the long term, because it will not work. People
need to understand that everything does not have to be resolved
now. What do you REALLY need to come to an understanding about--just
the next step. This should be in the context of the long term.
You do not have to solve it all right now. You do not have to
come to theoretical understanding of everything. Dialogue and
intellect and models are important. Do not waste the energy of
yourself or your organization in theoretical debates. Use those
as constructs to move forward. Is this good enough for now to
move us to the next level of experience? The next level of experience
will give us more information about our model.
Agreement and consensus is overrated. It does not have much to
do with teamwork. Teamwork is defined by if everyone plays, if
all ideas got out, if everyone made the commitment to the team.
The commitment the team makes to the individual is to respect
that person's contribution.
(co-design cont.)
000706.Matt
Taylor